Inner game and outer game, eh? Why do we have to make labels for everything?? They’re so closely related, they’re like a one thing. And they merge in one place: in you. You can’t have good outer game without a decent inner one.
Why? Well, acting with a dissonance to your inner-self is very tiring and… let’s be honest, doesn’t work very well. Girls see through that illusion pretty easily. I know, fake it till you make it principle works sometimes, but actually we should start building solid foundations first.
What are the two pillars of rock-solid inner game?
1. High self-esteem
2. Right values and convictions
High self-esteem is absolutely crucial. But what do I mean by self-esteem?