There are tons of websites that “specialize in pick up lines and seduction” these days, but people tend not to really know how to use them and can’t see the difference between what’s good for them –as well as the investments that go with such techniques- what part is more related to business and marketing, such websites will probably not give you advice that will go against their goals (which is to take your money).
Because at SBK we share all our information for free (except when you hire a coach of course), this article will give you a glimpse at what reality is.
Knowing yourself is a must.
Said like this, it could look weird, but the biggest problem with men these days is a psychological problem, as men should learn how to listen to their needs, set goals, and plan their future based on ambition and willingness to discover new things.
Don’t expect to live a decent life if you listen to those sites that recommend that you listen to weird songs, wear a shirt and pants most of the time, read Nietzsche and brag about Paulo Coelho… this is ridiculous, and it’s not even close to you. All you do is act like a different person, and guess what: you’re horrible actors, people don’t want to be anywhere near you, and though you may have something that looks like a very interesting social circle, it’s all just an illusion and a waste of time (a waste of life?).
People are not looking for robots, just for human beings with functional brains. Since I now have the habit of listening to people, and carefully looking around and analyze my surroundings, I noticed what you may have noticed: all they do is applying the advice given by seduction gurus-in all its forms- which deprive them of their humanity.
They walk on clearly traced roads; they are programmed to always be « dependent » and as time goes by this are really scary. They have no charisma, and the scariest part is that this phenomenon is really growing and this is why we have decided to talk about it in this article, because this phenomenon goes against those we are trying to help. This is ugly, and to all those women who want to go on a date with such « show offs »… ouch.
I know you have trouble understanding this and so do we. People who act like intellectuals or neo-cons…
Indeed, logically, the consequence of this disaster is very bad at all levels and people often don’t realize that they are declining and that they are not applying self development principles. In fact, they are not applying development principles, period.
When they read a great book entitled X (which is top secret but also a best-seller, so you see the contradiction) and by having the vision that is prescribed by a certain guru (let’s call him Y), these people – think that – they are exceptional people, that they become real lions, that they are nothing like the herd of sheep that surrounds them. They define themselves as confident, handsome, rich, smart… even though such adjectives apply to them in no way.
Being handsome and popular is not a goal in itself.
It is the result of years of work needed to have a fulfilling life while taking it easy on Prozac. You could have an interesting life, and who knows, you could even leave a trace behind you and have people remember what you did for this world. To do so you should listen to advice with an open mind (there’s a saying that you always need someone less capable than you are in life), and you should listen carefully and open your eyes to this world’s reality without letting your dreams be guided by profound manipulations, whether such manipulations are heard, seen or written.