We have seen in the first part of this article that it is of capital importance that you should have a so called “neutral” state of mind in order to be in perfect simulation with the spirit of the beautiful princess that will be with you, Mr. Seducer.
The second part of this article will be more technical. You will find out small tricks, but also BIG revelations. You will simply realize that, in all likelihood, all your first dates before you read this article were some sort of failure, or simply, did not work out like YOU wanted them to. Yes, you are right, because I also realized that EVERY TIME I would do a huge mistake. In fact, as I would always bomb my first dates, I can tell you now, with complete modesty, that all my first dates work out just as I plan them to work out, by following a small elaborated plan. Let me first remind you what we saw in the first part: you should put in mind that in fact you’re only going out with an ordinary girl, who may be an interesting girl, and I might give her a second chance for an eventual 2nd date, well at least… if I’m still available :)
Forget what your mother told you. “Beauty is something internal, beauty resides in the heart, beauty is blabla…” STILL believing in these kinds of lies is a good way to miss out on the real stuff the rest of your life. As you know, true seducers get dressed like princes!
A nice jacket, a tight tailored shirt, and not that of the classical clerk which is extra-large (and which was bought by his mother, something normal given he’s a clerk). Then put nice pants that are assorted with your jacket, which should also be TAILORED! Then put this sentence in your mind:
“From now on, all my clothes should be tailored”
I almost forgot…
Did you know that the first thing girls notice are, your shoes? Again, forget all those tips you’re your grandmother gave you and forget about TITANIC SHOES, Michael Jordan style sneakers that your friend who likes basketball recommends. Tip: wear shoes from Armel, they offer respectable and interesting choices.
One last thing: it’s always good to smell good… Don’t forget perfume which is both light and … seducing!
If you want good perfume, use, like I do, Black XS from Paco Rabanne. It makes women go wild!
Choosing a place for the date
In fact, it will be the PLACES.
Yes, the first revelation that I offer you is that you should choose several places. If you opt for a cup of coffee, it would be better to offer her something to do before coffee. For example, ask her to come with you to the mall, to help you choose a gift for mom, or if you want to make her feel jealous, a gift for your ex-girlfriend to celebrate your break up anniversary. NO! I’m just kidding, never talk about Exes even if she insists!!
After the mall, you could take a walk heading towards the café, but not AFTER that. Why? Not that a lot of men do not know what to say and multiply everything by zero, for which they obtain zero! So, for the love of God, forget the “let me see you off” or “let me drop you off”. Always go opposite ways, even if you should technically be heading the same way!!!
Moving on, let’s focus on changing the date’s place. Why? Simple, by taking your princess to several places, she will get the impression that she’s known you for a while, that it’s as if you were already a couple, as you have shared activities together, which is always good, as the math is simple:
Let’s suppose that you went to the mall together and that you visited shops (they love that!!). You then buy ice cream at the mall and have them in the garden nearby, and final, you go to this nice place in the city where you have delicious waffles, which will then make it 3 dates in 1. Practical, isn’t it?
The first time
Still regarding the place for the date, if you’re among those men who want to leave their trace and make an impression on women on the first date, it’s very simple. Give your woman “her first time”. That is, you can offer something that she’s never done before! If your princess loves adventure, try something extreme (like parachuting, surfing etc.). If she likes cuisine, take her to an exotic restaurant and make her taste dishes that she’s never had (in fact, don’t offer something too exotic like dog food or dragon meat). Anyway, ask her something simple like what she would like to do and that she’s never done. She will be very thankful. Even if things don’t work out between you two, she will tell about the date she had with you to her best friend and grand children when she will be a grandmother ;)
I once offered a girl to join the rehearsal of my flamenco group before going to have a drink, and she fell in love with the guitar and Spanish style music, she insist that I should learn how to play the guitar, something I did honestly and for free… at her place ;)
You now have the key to successful first dates. All you need is to spend a good time with your loved one, to enjoy the nice moments that you are spending with your princess. Because… if you try to impress her and to show her that you’re awesome, well then, dear friends, you will make her run away and you will never get that 2nd date, which is the most important date.
In the 3rd part, we will deal with the aspects related to your date, that is, the kind of conversation you will have, the topics you will talk about, techniques that lead to lively conversations, and sexual conversations… etc.
To be continued…