Because we should not generalize, you should know that “women” have a world of their own to discover… In this world full of women, we should understand that all this is a science that is still full of mysteries…
In each science that is taught, we often start by teaching you each part of components of this science. As you know, entering the world of seduction is not an easy thing, and that needs some form of knowledge in the area of science!
If I had to teach this science in 10 minutes, I would only mention one thing:
“How to flirt with women”
We will thus deal with this topic.
Hitting on a woman is completely different from flirting with a woman. Hitting on her only depends on one side (the man or the woman), in opposition to flirting which deals on both sides (the man AND the woman). Flirting is thus a conversation that is led by the person who wants to seduce the other person!
Let’s analyze the difference between us (seducers) and an AFC (beginner)! When an HB9 stands in front of the AFC, he thinks, “How could anyone attract that woman?” While a seducer simply goes to her knowing that by talking to her in 10 minutes, you will be convinced that this woman is attracted to you… as you always do with other women! The difference is how effective your flirting is!
This is the phase where plenty of people are stuck. Attraction is not the way a woman would judge you, nor is it what a woman prefers! Women like big guys with muscles. You see those men in women’s clothes catalogues… that’s what women prefer.
That probably isn’t what we look like. But that’s totally OK! Because the men than women prefer, and the men that women find attractive, are like apples and oranges.
The attraction does not really depend on the preference. The attraction is like the feeling and desire to be able to seduce that woman.
Let me share with you three things that will completely change the way you talk to women and that will help you easily attract women.
1. Push & Pull
Believe me, this isn’t a simple expression! It is one of the best techniques (this is why it’s the first one that I mention)
Push/pull is when you push your target emotionally further from you, and then you pull her back emotionally toward you. Each time you push, you create emotional space that is sufficient to pull her.
To understand the concept, let me give you an example. Think about your favorite dish…. When you can have more from that dish… what would be your feeling towards abandoning that dish during a diet to make it more appetizing? I would bet that it would make the dish even more appetizing!
The principle is simple, we will create the same tension than with your favorite dish during diet than with the woman. Here are a few examples:
Sometimes, by having a conversation with that woman, you will take her hand by telling her “you have the most beautiful smile I have seen so far tonight… this makes me feel happy inside!” She would usually say “thank you!”.
Then I wait for a few seconds and I add: “You know what? By the way there are four other girls who I’ve seen with the same smile tonight. Let’s just say that you’re the 4th best smile. Let me call you number 4” Then you push her hand somewhere else.
The woman should then think “No! I want to be number 1!” I will then say “OK I will promote you to number 3 just because of your challenger spirit!”
After kissing her, you go like “you have more adventure than I thought! I will give you a B+ and will grant you the authorization to cook for me!”
“Give me your hands”…(cuddle them) they’re so soft… but they’re full of sweat (pushing her hands back).
You understand the concept, it’s not mean…it’s pure flirt!
2. Cocky & Funny
C&F is a technique from David De Angelo, which opens up another dimension of flirt. C&F is a mixture of neg-hits with humor. It’s is one of the H2G (Hard to Get) attitudes, which consists in teasing your target in a cocky way, but with lots of humor. You should be full of irony and use lots of jokes.
How can you adopt this attitude correctly?
The most important thing here is not to excite her, but you should think about how YOU could have FUN AT THAT MOMENT as you usually do without thinking too much! All you need to do is play with words and tease her so she can make nervous laughs. Here are a few examples:
You: You’re really lucky?
Her: Really? Why?
You: Because you go out with me!
You: Yes, and you should not TOUCH… I’m… the one who will touch!
You: Listen, I’m sorry I lost touch with you these days, I was really busy, but now I’m available… (Suddenly changing your tone with that of a salesman)… but I will need you to pay… 19,99 per hour!
Her: OK let’s go get a drink
You: Oh please, don’t tell me you want to get me drunk so you can try to seduce me!!
You: Were you staring at my ass?
Or you could combine C&F with kinesthetic, like:
You could take her hand and put it above your shoulder: “I will give you for 23 seconds, that’s all you can have” and after 5 seconds… “OK time’s up, let go…” and then she might mention the fact that she was entitled to 23 seconds and might want to take your shoulder again… in that case that would be an IOI, and you could add: “OK, 5 more seconds”
If she has her back turned at the bar, you could ask her to see her hand: Can I see your hand?
Oh… this is really interesting… (turn it around)… very well… there you go!! I just took your place!!” They will surely laugh! Why use this technique? She has her back turned at the bar… all she needs is to turn around and you will be OUT!
You need to avoid that at all costs!!
Finally, here are some example, you could create some others, or lead your own game!
This technique is from Mystery. In his Mystery Method, he often mentions this technique in the attraction phase!
You just met an HB9 who is really attractive… then the question is: except for her beauty, why is she so attractive?
Women have great difficulties when it comes to hitting on men, without using their bodies or their sensual voices! The prettier they are, the more trouble they have using anything other than their beauty to seduce! The technique is the solution.
Bait : Refers to all the questions that you can use to catch the fish so you can respond to something more attractive, other than her beauty!
“What did you want to be when you were a kid… and don’t tell me a Princess! ”
“If you could be someone else, who would you be and why?”
Hook : That is her answer. Let’s say she gave you an answer, artist or actress… you will try to handle her answer as a DHV for her… as a quality!
Reel : You can get closer to her by saying something like:
“Really? An artist? I love art; I think that’s a great way to express yourself through unique and original things!”
You know now you have become a lot more interesting now that I have seen you!
Release : “No…no…I can’t talk to you… you’re too nice for me” (turn around and start leaving. This is the important part…. Have you complimented her? Now you can play hot and cold with her… she will come running after you!! The technique consists in: asking her something about her (bait), her answer (hook), compliment her or give her a sign of interest (reel) and push her back (un-consider her) (release)…
Be careful to calibrate!
This are techniques that can go both ways… if you don’t use them, she will not be attracted, if you use them too much, you will look like a fool! Calibrating will be the key to you success! A good dish without spices would not be good! You should know the exact amount that you should use if you want to get to the comfort phase, where you can play your game!
Trick: If you receive IOIs (Indicator of Interest), go straight to the comfort zone, don’t wait!
To conclude, flirting is an art! You should know how to use words properly and when to use them, which would be the only secret to perfectly attract her! By practicing you can learn how to calibrate!
So now it’s your turn to practice, and next time you see a beautiful woman, you can think that if you start a conversation, she will no doubt be attracted.
On your marks, flirt, seduce!