Sexual tension is the best seduction tool there is. If you know how to create it, the women around you won’t be able to think about anything other than taking the next step with you – on a physical level. Though I’ve already talked about this topic many times on my “sexuality” column, today I want to focus more specifically on how to develop sexual tension and establish your player persona. It’s not very complicated, but the results are impressive!
So, here are some tips to create a sexual tension so thick that you could cut it with a knife!
1. Sexual tension has to be natural
A lot of guys think they can turn a situation sexual even if they are not physically turned on themselves. The concern is that this kind of practice can turn against you, giving your partner the impression that you are trying to manipulate her, to push for action when the situation hasn’t gotten to that point.
If you want to create the perfect conditions for development of sexual tension, you have to be in the proper state of mind to be able to send the right message and not scare your partner off with your first physical contact.
Uncertainty and anticipation are central to this process, and if you can’t call up these feelings in yourself, there is little chance that the girl you’re trying to seduce is going to jump on you and demand that you make wild love to her. You must be able to anticipate the situation and feel the possibility (or lack thereof) for sexual tension before attempting this kind of approach. Otherwise, it’s doomed to failure.
2 A well-controlled state of mind
The most challenging part of establishing sexual tension is having the ability to get excited for the show, but not too much too soon. You don’t want to lose control and have an orgasm within 5 minutes after you start getting down to business, either. To do this there are some simple steps you can follow:
– Imagine her naked
– Think about what you want to do with her
– Imagine what she’ll do for you
– Look at her lips while imagining kissing her
– Intensify the eye contact
– Gently touch her neck
– Play the awkward silences
These few thoughts should have an immediate and visibly physical effect. Be careful, though, not to fantasize too much – if things go the way you expect, you don’t want to get too excited too early.
3. Attraction and rejection: The basis of sexual tension
You can compare this kind of situation to a dance or a tennis match. To develop sexual tension, we must learn to set limits (turn your head when she tries to kiss you, touch her body with the lightest touch, look deeply into her eyes before looking away s if nothing happened…). Developing a little bit of frustration intensifies the feelings. Your partner should almost be confused and doubt your intentions. This will create an unbearable wait, which will boost her attraction to you.
Your partner will never be more excited than when you keep her waiting on what she thought was a sure thing. She should never be sure if you really want her or if you’re just teasing. It is a safe bet that she’ll “push back” in turn – that’s the game. Now is themoment to come back strong and kindle the fire. Soon she won’t know where to turn, and the sexual tension will be so strong that she won’t be able to resist you.
4 Have fun and enjoy!
If you are shy and have trouble talking to women in general, it will be difficult to create real sexual tension. You must demonstrate your confidence in yourself and be relaxed enough to enjoy the situation. Don’t take things too seriously.
Remember that seduction is a game. Try different approaches to see the young lady’s reactions and to see how each plays out.
By doing this you will get to know your partner, which will allow you to prove that you are the ideal lover: attractive and attentive. Whatever you do, don’t hesitate. Don’t ask permission. You would not want to let the fire go out and ruin this moment!
5. Start flirting to develop sexual tension
Kissing, caressing, making eye contact, touching … these are your weapons to make her body react and to ignite her senses. To develop this skill, you have to practice. You won’t master in the art of the development of sexual tension in 2 days. This requires experience.
The more situations like this you find yourself in, the more you’ll be able to master your emotions and avoid overdoing it, so that everything seems natural. You’ll know what to do at each moment, and what not to do to avoid awkwardness. Don’t worry too much, this kind of thing is difficult to explain, but it’s easy to master if you pay attention to what is happening during these intense moments.
Once you know how to create a palpable sexual tension, your lovemaking will become intense and memorable. You’ll be able to turn your partner on like no one else has ever been able to do, and she’ll think you’re an expert in bed. Give her the pleasure she’s expecting, and she’ll think of you as the best lover of her life! Good luck!