It’s not always easy to tell if a girl wants to seduce you for fun, or if she really has feelings for you. However, there are some surefire signs that can help you figure it out.
Of course, each girl is different and won’t act the same way based on her temperament and your specific situation. Still, there is something that you have to be careful with when it comes to girls – they could make you think one thing, while they’re thinking the opposite. For example, a girl might purposely ignore you to make you think she’s not interested when actually, it’s quite the opposite.
Analyze the signals she’s giving you
If a girl is interested in you and wants to know more about you, that doesn’t necessarily mean she’s in love with you. It could be a sign that she likes you, but it’s not enough proof on its own.
Be careful because she could simply be interested in you as a friend. A girl could be very sociable and outgoing, and like making friends of both genders. Then again, she may like you and want to get to know you better. But don’t worry, we’re going to break down some other signs that can help you know if she likes you.
It’s also worth pointing out that if you’re interested in her, pay attention to how she acts. See if she’s reserved around you or if she seems comfortable and tells you personal things about her life. Sure, there can be exceptions, like if you’re dealing with a girl who’s shy and doesn’t open up easily. But if a girl says that she’s telling you something that she’s never told anyone else, you can be sure that she likes you because that’s the detail that makes all the difference.
Keep this in mind: A girl who’s in love with a man will tell him things that she doesn’t tell even her best friends.
Know that if she likes you, she’ll give you signals, but often a girl will wait for the guy to make the first move, especially when it comes to admitting you have feelings for each other.
Observe her behavior
If a girl likes you, she’s going to flirt with you. She’ll laugh with you, touch you (depending on her personality, because some girls just aren’t very touchy-feely), tease you and like it when you tease her. Of course, be careful because some girls do like to play around like this, knowing that you like them without actually liking you. Also keep in mind that a girl might like you without showing any obvious sign of flirting with you.
Pay close attention to body language, which says a lot more than you might think. If the girl is distant, crosses her arms, and doesn’t look you in the eye, there’s very little chance that she’s in love with you. On the other hand, if she’s physically close to you, if her arms aren’t necessarily blocking you from her, and if she looks you in the eye, it’s very likely that she’s in love with you. Again, keep in mind that if a girl is shy, she could find it difficult to look you in the eye even if she really likes you.
It’s also possible that a girl could be in love with you but keep her distance simply because she’s nervous and needs reassurance.
If you’re able to watch her around other people, see if she acts the way she does when she’s with you. This will be really helpful in determining if she’s interested in you romantically, or if she just sees you as a friend.
When it comes to her clothes and general appearance, if she likes you, she’ll always try to look good around you. This may not be blatantly obvious, but she’ll want to make herself look nice so that you think she’s pretty, of course.
Get right to the point
It’s interesting to analyze the signals she gives off and to observe her behavior, but if you’re still asking yourself “How can I tell if she likes me?”, let’s get right to the point, my friend.
Ask her out on a date. The idea is that you spend time together so that you can get to know each other better.
If you can, try to find out information about her online to see if she’s interested in another guy or if she seems to post a lot of photos with you or to talk about you or react to your own posts.
If you have friends in common, don’t beat around the bush when it comes to asking them about her, but be careful to be discrete so that they don’t tell her you’ve been asking how she feels about you.
Flirt openly with her. Don’t go about it like an oaf. Take your time and be refined, but explicit. Be more and more tactile until the time is right to take her into your arms to see if she shares, appreciates, and reciprocates this gesture.
If the situation calls for it, just ask her how she feels about you. Only do this if you feel comfortable, though. Don’t force yourself. It all depends on your state of mind, on hers, and on the moment. If you don’t dare or don’t want to ask her the question directly, don’t do it. On the other hand, if you think the time is right, ask her so that you can get it off your chest.
Otherwise, find ways to encourage her to tell you if she likes you.
It’s the small and big acts of kindness that count
If a girl seeks you out and wants to be with you, often, very often, almost always in fact, that’s a really good sign. It’s even better if she wants you to meet her friends and to hang out with both them and you at the same time.
It’s acts of kindness that count, little or big, like if she sends you a text when she’s thinking of you or calls you to see if you had a good day. Or if she gives you a gift for no particular reason, just to make you happy.
If she likes you, she’ll encourage you to do what you like, what makes you happy, no matter what. She will always be there to support you and to be interested in you, in your family and friends, and your life in general.
She’ll want to do things with you and will imagine herself with you in the short, middle, and long term. Going on vacation together, living together, maybe having children together.
And of course, if she shows that she wants you, in addition to all of the other signs I’ve mentioned, she’s definitely in love with you.
She likes you if…
- She constantly wants to see you, talk to you, listen to you, and spend time with you.
- She feels good around you and wants to introduce you to the people close to her.
- She does everything to make you happy and to encourage you in everything that’s important to you.
- She listens to you any time of the day or night.
- She accepts your good and bad qualities.
- She doesn’t hide you or your relationship from her friends, family, or other people close to her .
- She always makes time for you, even if she’s busy.
- She feels proud to be by your side whether you’re alone, in public, or with other people.
- She introduces you to her friends and family, coworkers, and strangers as her boyfriend.
- She sees a future with you.
- She wants to live with you, have children with you, or simply spend your lives together.
- Of course, she clearly tells you that she loves you.
Ultimately, there are a lot of small and big things that can show she likes you but sometimes it’s not something you can explain – it’s something you feel.
When you’re with her, you can read in her gaze what she thinks of you and believe me, if she loves you, you won’t have any doubt about it.
Love can’t be hidden, so if you have any reason to suspect she has feelings for you, I wouldn’t tell you to give up because it all depends on the personality of the girl in question. On the other hand, be direct and make sure you get an answer to the question of how she feels about you.
Don’t neglect any signal and be aware of the girl’s behavior when you’re together, as well as when you’re apart.
A girl who likes you will show it in a million ways, in unmistakable acts and moments.
Again, remember that saying ‘I love you’ may seem like the most explicit proof that she feels that way, but it’s not the one and only indicator. Some girls are more or less at ease with words, while others tend to feel more comfortable with behavior and gestures. It’s important to get to know a girl so that you can better understand what her behavior around you really means.
If you know her personality and way of acting in specific situations, you’ll more easily and quickly be able to tell if she likes you.
If you don’t know a girl, it’s difficult to know if she has feelings for you.