This article is in response to the comment Morrison left on “How to make love like a God …? (Part 2) and regards the size of a certain important organ.
Penis size for men is like breast size for woman, with one exception … you hide your attributes a little better than us!
Some men are attracted by large breasts, others prefer a little junk in the trunk. Should we ladies develop a complex about this? No way! Because there are plenty of guys out there interested in women beyond the stereotypical “hot girl”(you know, with blonde hair, blue eyes, etc.). These men are looking for the whole package, not just a few features. And it’s the same for girls.
Even if a girl were just after a big cock, she wouldn’t know what’s you’ve got under wraps until you’re in bed together. And usually, there’s a lengthy process that must be undergone between meeting each other and hopping into bed together.
This process is called … SEDUCTION!
I’ve never heard of a girl jumping into bed with a guy just because he told her he had a big penis, have you? Or maybe “come on, beautiful, let me show you my huge cock.” Not sure that approach is going to work… but hey, that’s just my opinion!
A man confident in his ability to satisfy a woman is much more attractive than a guy with a huge cock who just pounds away without a thought to her pleasure.
Allow me to explain a little.
Yes, some women love a big penis, just like some men love women with huge beasts – so what? Pleasing everyone is an impossible task, so it really isn’t worth putting yourself down because you’re not as well-endowed as you’d like to be.
All of this is in your own head, and the ladies may not even be thinking about this at all. In fact, I would argue that even this “competition” about size is coming from men, not from women at all. Just like women who compare their breast size to others, this only serves to reassure the ego of those who want to undermine other people’s self-esteem.
The need to fulfill your ego always comes back to a lack of self-esteem. In the end, this is all just childish nonsense to attack rivals who have qualities or attributes that we lack, people who seem superior to ourselves. It is also a weapon of revengethat a scorned woman might resort to, because we know howdevastating it can be for a man to be told he has a small penis, especially in public!
The size of one part of our bodies can’t explain our personalities. Only superficial people value human beingsin this way.
A woman returns to a man who is able to give her pleasure, who enjoys being with her, and who respects her, regardless of what he’s got down south. Very few womenwould judge a man on the size of his penis;if she does, RUN!
In fact, if women are going to complain about one thing in bed, they’ll bring up the “wham bam thank you ma’am” style of lovemaking way before any mention of penis size.
We like to feel like the “only woman in the world” for our partner. This gives women the feeling of being respected and valued through an exchange of tenderness and affection.
You know, I love metaphors, so here’s a good one.
When a lady invites a gentleman into her home (ahem, remember, this is a metaphor), the gentleman should be appreciative of her hospitality, even if it’s just a one night stand.
Lets extend that metaphor…
When you are invited to dinner with friends:
– You ring before entering.
– You take your shoes off if necessary.
– You don’t use in the fridge without being invited.
– You set the table or offer to help.
– You offer to help clean up
In short, there are certain behaviors that civilized, respectful people always practice as a sign of gratitude for the warm hospitality. You should adapt the same principles with the ladies.
Is the size of your penis the only factor at play in a woman’s pleasure? No. It may be the number one issue in men’s minds, but it’s not even near the top of the list for us women.