Personal Development

Inner game and outer game, eh? Why do we have to make labels for everything?? They’re so closely related, they’re like a one thing. And they merge in one place: in you. You can’t have good outer game without a decent inner one. Why? Well, acting with a dissonance to your inner-self is very tiring […]

I wrote last time about the creating a vision for ourselves to put the hardships of learning game into perspective. I got a number of e-mails asking me to elaborate on the concept. Some people wondered if having a great goal is enough to make rejection, fear of leaving the comfort zone etc. bearable enough.

The community effect normalizes people The notion of group is an archaic notion. It stemmed from a primary and unreasonable need which consisted in saying that we should feel that we exist to other people’s eyes. This feeling has never been stronger, and today more than ever. This can sound weird, because our society claims

One day, you questioned yourself and asked yourself “why can’t we lead happy lives? Why are we caught in the killer routine trap?” And that’s exactly when we started feeling happy, because happiness never comes alone: if you’re on SBK or a site of the same kind, you’ve probably read a lot of article on

Some of you may already know what the dominant male is. For others who may not know, I will make a brief reminder. This term comes from anthropology and social psychology: a dominant male (or alpha man) is a leader, the head of a group. There have been many examples in history: Che Guevara, Martin

Life is a mixture of highs and lows that can happen at any moment. This happened to me recently. In moments where everything seems to be going the wrong way, some will even start screaming and will call their condition “sadness”, as feelings invade us, we feel vulnerable, and when we hear remarks that may