Today we’re going to learn how to build attraction using text messages. And how to send texts that are funny and sexy, but also, what mistakes you’ll need to avoid getting trapped in an overbearing pick-up attempt.
Most of us don’t properly take advantage of the asset of text messaging quite the way we should. Because there are some guys, who are guilty of:
Sending texts that are TOO romantic… all the time!
I have a question for you.
Would you send the following text to your dude when you’re getting ready for bed? :
“I hope you have a lovely, magnificent night princess, have sweet dreams, I’m thinking of you, I can’t get to sleep.”
Oh, okay… What a relief ! If you send that type of message to your male friend, I think you might be at the wrong address :)
So why would you send it to a girl? Because you want to look like a romantic type, the guy who’s so nice and so protective that he can’t take his mind off his sweetie ? You know, that kind of nonsense doesn’t wash in the 21st century, unless you live in the 19th century with Victor Hugo and his friends. (Not that I have anything against Victor Hugo, I love the guy.) So stop sending this junk to girls, it’s utterly pointless and gets you nowhere, NOWHERE! Stop sending love notes and poems, unless you want her make fun of you with her friends, by showing them what a romantic clown you are. That’s for YOU to decide…
Writing in SMS language
If I find the guy who first wrote something in that language, I’m going to break his face…
Every pathetic loser uses that language, and they use it for constantly, it’s gotten to be like second nature for them, some of them even use it in their daily lives, in essays and on tests out of sheer reflex, they’ve gotten so used to writing that way it’s a natural reaction now (yeah yeah, I’m telling you, this is real). So when someone sends a romantic text message it was probably written like this:
“I hOp U hav a luvlE, magnificent nyt prinzS, hav swEt dreams, I’m tinkN of U, I can’t git 2 slp.”
I’m enraged re-reading what I just wrote, but I’ve seen lots of guys who do that and… now I’m enraged again!
For the love of God, don’t use that language, write properly, set yourself apart from the loser herd, because when you write in SMS language, you make yourself look like a 10 year-old kid who’s completely naive, I’ve already told you about the philosophy of SeductionByKamal, so just add the following:
“From now on, I will no longer write in SMS language, SMS language kills.”
Alright. Let’s see now how we can really take advantage of the benefits that a little text messaging can bring. What I’m going to share with you will be very useful for you in your upcoming encounters with girls, will help you to provoke and draw more attention from the girl of your dreams. I’m also going to give you several examples of text messages to send.
But first, let me establish the fundamentals:
An SMS, should be : Simple , Meaningful and Sexy !
Text messages should be brief and entertaining. Use them to flirt with your girl, be charming and seductive. They should disguise the signals of interest you send out to your sweetheart, they should lead her to the following line of thought: “is this guy interested in me or not?”
Text messages are an excellent way to establish connection with your girl without showing excessive interest. This allows you to continue interacting comfortably with this girl you just met. If you send a lot of simple, meaningful, and sexy text messages, you’ll increase your chances with girls like her over a hot cappucino.
Now let’s take a little example.
There’s this girl who I meet in a bar/pub/club/wherever… After having a nice little time with her, right when we’re exchanging our phone numbers, I ask her, laughing, to enter my name in her mobile phone as “Sexy Kamal,” because my friends do that, and sometimes, I’ll give a girl a nickname too, for example: “crazy,” “shorty,” “sweety,” etc…. the idea being that during my interaction with her, I noticed something about her, and I told her, “Oh, wait, from now on I’m going to call you crazy girl.”
Why do all that?
First, when she receives my text, she’ll see: message from “Sexy Kamal,” she’ll read my message with a little smile, she’ll remember the funny little moment we had together. I’ll also remind her of that moment, when I slip the word “crazy” into my message. Here! take this example of a text that I sent to a girl I just met:
“Hi crazy girl, I know you haven’t been able to stop thinking about me, and that’s why I’m writing to say hi ”
Here’s another one:
“Stop thinking about me crazy girl… wink!”
A text I ADORE sending, even before she’s sent me a message:
“hey… it’s really too soon to start sending each other texts, I think we should wait a while before we do that ”
Once again, I’m not telling you to slavishly copy these messages – use your own imagination, take these as a model, build your own, and keep them for yourself (unless you want to make a website about seduction too) and within a few days from now every girl in the city will receive these messages.
Before I forget, I’d like to tell you something, guys…
Text messages are NEVER used to carry on a conversation, in other words, don’t start hoping to seduce her with a bunch of texts where you try to demonstrate all your good personality traits or whatever… save all that for your first date, your first meeting. Even if this girl tries to “chat” with you via text message, ignore her, or rather, ignore her texts!!
Would you like to know why?
Yeah well, it’s because the best way to answer a text is, quite simply, not to reply at all… re-read that sentence and commit it firmly to memory. This will demonstrate that you’ve got things to do, so you’re someone with a social life, an interesting person. You aren’t a ten year-old child who’s all excited to have an unlimited texting plan. So I repeat once again, text messages aren’t used for having conversations, and let me repeat this too: the best answer to a text message is no reply at all!
Another thing… don’t set up your first dates via text message, that’s why the telephone was invented (phone game), keep in mind that text messages are ONLY a little addition to the phone, a supplement, a bonus. Well here we are, gentlemen, it’s the end of the article, so just a few small reminders:
- Never send text messages that are TOO romantic
- Never write like a 10 year-old kid
- SMS: Simple, Meaningful, Sexy
- Use nicknames for girls
- Do not use texts for conversations
- Do not use texts to set up a date
- The best reply: no reply at all